Single Mother By Choice Therapy
online THERAPY FOR BLACK AND BROWN WOMEN
single mother by choice (smbc or smc) is a woman
who chooses to become a mother on her own without a partner.
It takes a tremendous amount of courage, faith, and discipline to fulfill your dream of becoming a mother. Yet letting go of the vision of having a family with a partner has been a tough one to reconcile. The stigma around being a single mother has left you second-guessing whether you will go this route or get back out there and start dating. And let’s not get started on the financial costs that come with the process of doing fertility treatments. I mean you can go the IUI or IVF route and not end up with a baby. It all feels like such a gamble!
However, you can become a single mother by choice, not desperation. SMBC Therapy can help you work out the details and decide what will be your unique path forward. Contact me today for a free consultation.
Raising a child as a single mother by choice can feel like the weight of the world on your shoulders. Even though you made a conscious decision to do this on your own, it can still be challenging to handle everything on your own. It really does take a village, for both mother and child.
This is where I come in!
One hour a week of dedicated time to unpack your feelings, address pressing anxieties or doubts, and explore practical tools to keep it together. You no longer have to feel alone in this. In collaboration, we can work together to create an unapologetically authentic motherhood for you and your child.
Who is a single mother by choice?
Common Thoughts Around Being a single Mother by choice:
“I thought I would have more support, but now that baby is here everyone has disappeared.”
“I worry about being judged by my family and friends about my decision to be a single mother.”
“My family is not open to the idea of me being a single mother by choice and I need someone to talk to about it.”
“I'm having doubts about becoming a single mother. The cost alone is making me think twice about going through with this.”
“I’ve always wanted to be a mom but I’m TIRED of having disappointment after disappointment with people I match with on the apps. I want to start a family, what are my options?”
“How do I choose a donor? Where do I find a Black donor? Are there any Black donors available?”
“I'm feeling lonely in this journey of motherhood. How do I connect with other mamas who look like me and understand my experience?”
“Since I don’t have a partner, who will be my support when I deliver?”
“My baby is here! Now what? What tf have I gotten myself in to!?”
“When the kids at school ask why doesn’t my child have a daddy, how do I explain to them that all families are different and that’s okay?”
“Will it be harder to get into a serious relationship now that I am a single mother by choice?”
“I want a child, but I don't want to give up all the things in my life I enjoy.”
“People tell me I did this to myself so stop complaining... but, it's HELLA hard in moments that having an extra set of hands would come in handy!”
“Will my child to grow up hating me because they don't have what society says is a ‘traditional’ family?”
“I need to talk to someone who actually gets it, ya know?”
Why therapy for Single Moms by choice?
You deserve to have all the support you need — for both you and your child.
Between navigating being a new mom, balancing returning to work and childcare, and managing everything on your own, it can feel never-ending.
Seeking therapy is a proactive step toward ensuring your well-being and your child's. It's a sign of strength to recognize when you need support and actively seek ways to get it.
Therapy can be a valuable tool in your journey of single motherhood, helping you find balance, manage stress, and create a positive environment for yourself and your child.
As a therapist who specializes in supporting mamas in different stages of motherhood, I’m here to help you rise to the challenges of motherhood while maintaining your sanity.
Whether you're struggling with postpartum symptoms, feeling tapped out by daily breastfeeding sessions, or just need an outlet to talk about your feelings and concerns, therapy can be that sweet spot where you can let it all out and learn the necessary tools to thrive not just survive.
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